My Love ♥

Facts!

Some facts that keep reminding me in life, which are(1)人敬我一尺,我敬人一丈
(2)別尝试对我挥之则來，呼之则去
(3)更别挑战我的极限
(4)凡是留一线，日后好想见
(5)一切会过去的

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facebook account officially deactivated start today onwards! ><

走错.. 也是一种美丽的过程..

人生当中，
真的有很多分歧点，需要自己去抉择，
一旦做了决定，
就永远也无法知道 当初没有放弃的那条路 接下来会是怎样的？

以前的我们总是会犹豫、遗憾，
於是，
越来越多的不完美，
越来越多的情绪压抑，
越来越不开心..

其实..
「很多事情，错过了就没有了，错过了就是会变的」
既然自己无法去阻止这一切的变化，那又何必执著於其中呢？
一直相信，上天会安排这样的选择，就有祂自己的一套道理，
所以每个人走的每一步路，都有它的意义存在，
只是时候未到。

自己无法体验出箇中道理罢了。
以前总会抱怨自己的运气为何不能顺遂一点，
必须一直虚掷光阴？
有人很平顺，有人很坎坷，有人庸庸碌碌，有人处心积虑，
每个人都有他自己的一条路，只是看自己要怎么去走它罢了。

对於感情，更是如此，不仅是因为彼此的相识是命中注定，
更重要的是，情感的维繫是必须靠两个人共同去努力，
而不是像追求功名利禄一样，自己埋头苦干就可以得到的，
所以..

还是那句老掉牙的话，「尽人事，听天命」好好珍惜所走的每一步，好好珍惜所遇到的每一个人，
好好珍惜所拥有的一切，不曾拥有的东西，
就不要把它掛在心上..
而曾经拥有却失去的东西，就让它随风飘散..
因为..
该你的逃不掉，不该你的，强留也没有用.. ^^
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每个人走的每一步路，都有它的意义存在..
今生曾经跟你在一起，我没有遗憾..
虽然我们最后没有在一起了，​但是我们拥有曾经美好的回忆..



我个人比较喜欢这一段话：

有人很平顺，有人很坎坷..
有人庸庸碌碌，有人处心积虑..
​每个人都有他自己的一条路，
只是看自己要怎么去走它罢了​..

为什么人们总爱找一些不需要负上责任的理由，
来谈化自己​错误的决定？
虽然错过了.. 也走错了..
可是可以给我体验到 人生的过程和经验 ​使我们慢慢的成长..

H.E.A.R.T

♥ Eiffel Tower ♥

♥ Romantic ♥

♥ Piano ♥

♥ Pink Rose ♥

♥ Ferris Wheel ♥

♥ Stars ♥

♥ Rainbow ♥

♥ Snow ♥

♥ I Love You ♥

♥ Miracles ♥

10 virtually instant ways to improve your life =)

Many of our problems come from within our own minds. They aren’t caused by events, bad luck, or other people. We cause them through our own poor mental habits. Here are 10 habits you should set aside right away to free yourself from the many problems each one will be causing you.

• Stop jumping to conclusions- There are two common ways this habit increases people’s difficulties. First, they assume that they know what is going to happen, so they stop paying attention and act on their assumption instead. Human beings are lousy fortune-tellers. Most of what they assume is wrong. That makes the action wrong too. The second aspect of this habit is playing the mind-reader and assuming you know why people do what they do or what they’re thinking. Wrong again, big time. More relationships are destroyed by this particular kind of stupidity than by any other.

• Don’t dramatize- Lots of people inflate small setbacks into life-threatening catastrophes and react accordingly. This habit makes mountains out of molehills and gives people anxieties that either don’t exist or are so insignificant they aren’t worth worrying about anyway. Why do they do it? Who knows? Maybe to make themselves feel and seem more important. Whatever the reason, it’s silly as well as destructive.

• Don’t invent rules- A huge proportion of those “oughts” and “shoulds” that you carry around are most likely needless. All that they do for you is make you feel nervous or guilty. What’s the point? When you use these imaginary rules on yourself, you clog your mind with petty restrictions and childish orders. And when you try to impose them on others, you make yourself into a bully, a boring nag, or a self-righteous bigot.

• Avoid stereotyping or labeling people or situations- The words you use can trip you up. Negative and critical language produces the same flavor of thinking. Forcing things into pre-set categories hides their real meaning and limits your thinking to no purpose. See what’s there. Don’t label. You’ll be surprised at what you find.

• Quit being a perfectionist- Life isn’t all or nothing, black or white. Many times, good enough means exactly what it says. Search for the perfect job and you’ll likely never find it. Meanwhile, all the others will look worse than they are. Try for the perfect relationship and you’ll probably spend your life alone. Perfectionism is a mental sickness that will destroy all your pleasure and send you in search of what can never be attained.

• Don’t over-generalize- One or two setbacks are not a sign of permanent failure. The odd triumph doesn’t turn you into a genius. A single event—good or bad—or even two or three don’t always point to a lasting trend. Usually things are just what they are, nothing more.

• Don’t take things so personally- Most people, even your friends and colleagues, aren’t talking about you, thinking about you, or concerned with you at all for 99% of the time. The majority of folk in your organization or neighborhood have probably never heard of you and don’t especially want to. The ups and downs of life, the warmth and coldness of others, aren’t personal at all. Pretending that they are will only make you more miserable than is needed.

• Don’t assume your emotions are trustworthy- How you feel isn’t always a good indicator of how things are. Just because you feel it, that doesn’t make it true. Sometimes that emotion comes from nothing more profound than being tired, hungry, annoyed, or about to get a head-cold. The future won’t change because you feel bad—nor because you feel great. Feelings may be true, but they aren’t the truth.

• Don’t let life get you down! Keep practicing being optimistic- If you expect bad things in your life and work, you’ll always find them. A negative mind-set is like looking at the world through distorting, grimy lenses. You spot every blemish and overlook or discount everything else. It’s amazing what isn’t there until you start to look for it. Of course, if you decide to look for signs of positive things, you’ll find those too.

• Don’t hang on to the past. This is my most important suggestion of all: let go and move on- Most of the anger, frustration, misery, and despair in this world come from people clinging to past hurts and problems. The more you turn them over in your mind, the worse you’ll feel and the bigger they’ll look. Don’t try to fight misery. Let go and move on. Do that and you’ve removed just about all its power to hurt you.

一切会过去的 =))

need someone to talk

seriously it's been so long i didn't get emo, yet not for today. am thinking and thinking, what's the best solution to express my bad mood? im sure that most of the people will choose to blogging, because sometimes is hardly to express the feeling to those who around us. so do i.

main problem killed my feeling was money! i found that my saving is not enough to pay back my loan on time. it's become a barriers for me to achieve my dreams ='( i thought i could make it, yet it seems still a long way to go. thus, i force to postpone my plan until im able to pay off the loan. i need part time job badly!! am keep figure out the bettest way to earn more money $_$ AND reduce the number of outing. bear in mind!

friendship was another reason. common friends are easy to get, vice versa. how many of u all aware of those friends surrounded are true friends? let's say u facing the worst situation, could u guarantee all of them will lend u a hand? i think nope! unless TRUE friends. and only true friends will help u get through no matter what happen. we always seek for quality thingy, but not quantity. rite? same as friendship :)

you won't know.....

people! you won't get to know who is your true friend until something happen! with the worst situation u facing, you always get to figure out the truth! whether he or she is your intimate friend. or NONE of 'em. it might be a sad case! ='(

common friends are easy to get, vice versa. through your observation & understanding to the particular friend, you able to judge 'em by your own. in our life, most of the friends seems like passengers. they often go to another destination in a rush time or never willing to stop by. somehow, still got a bunch of friends would help u get through all the obstacles. by solving the problem with an appropriate ways, such as give some caring, encouragement & faith to face it! teehee! ^^

EVERYONE is selfish. none of us not! just the matter of what kind of business. people fight for their own for the sake of survival! friendship also doing the same, gradually being forgotten. it can't be avoid! Always! indeed, only true friends will lend u a hand & stay by your side!

♥ WEDDING DRESS ♥

awww~! am sooo in love with this song!♥ personally like this compared to another song called "i need a girl", also sing by the same singer- Taeyang! suddenly have a thought to click in youtube search for this song when my friend posted the "i need a girl" MV in fb. as you know, i get used to listen chinese & cantonese songs more > 10 yrs, thus, korean songs ain't my 1st choice. anyway, it's time to have some changes in my life =)
the most awesome part in this song comes from the melody. though i don't understand the language :P yet, so nice to listen especially during the raining day! im going to save his song in my mp4 too. hiak hiak!

here comes to Taeyang profile:

Stage Name: 태양 TAEYANG
Stage Names in Big Bang: Tae Yang, SOL
Position: Vocalist / Choreographer
Former Stage Name: YB Tae Kwon (YB 태권)
Real Name: Dong Young Bae (동영배)
D.O.B.: May 18, 1988
Height & Weight: 174 cm / 56 kg
Blood Type: AB
Debut: YG Family 2nd Album (2002)
Education: Daejin University in Theater & Film
Specialty : Rapping, dancing, beat boxing, singing, & foreign languages (Japanese & Chinese).
Hobby : Gardening, listening to music, watching TV, & BasketBall
Personality : Does his best in everything, over-achiever.
Doesn’t like to fight, he talks about his problem with the opponent.
He listens to you well and thinks about what he is going to say before he says anything.
Likes : church, summer, clothes, games, and mangas.
Musicians he admires : Usher, Omarion, Justin Timberlake

so cute~!

cool taeyang & background!

lotsa ♥♥♥❤

Happy V-day ~! ♥

HAPPY VALENTINE EVERYONE~!

Harloo~~! i've been long time didn't login my blogger. thus, i decided to back here updated my latest life. AND take this opportunity to wish my baby boy HAPPY VALENTINE ♥ !!

the 1st song displays in my blog special dedicate for you! hope u like it~! ^^

You're always on my mind
All day just all the time
You're everything to me
Brightest star to let me see
You touch me in my dreams
We kiss in every scene
I pray to be with you through rain and shiny days
I'll love you till I die
Deep as sea
Wide as sky
The beauty of our love paints rainbows
Everywhere we go
Need you all my life
You're my hope
You're my pride
In your arms I find my heaven
In your eyes my sea and sky
May life our love paradise